A Thanksgiving of Memories and Gratitude


Today we celebrate Thanksgiving, a special holiday in the United States, observed by people of all backgrounds, regardless of religion or heritage. For my family and me, this day is closely tied to a moment of reflection: pausing, looking back, and giving thanks.

Our own story in this country began 35 years ago, when we moved from Germany to Minnesota. I still remember our first Thanksgiving vividly. At that time of year, I was used to preparing for Advent: candles, quiet moments, and the gentle anticipation of Christmas. And suddenly, there was a major holiday right in the midst of it. A feast that felt almost like Christmas. It seemed strange and confusing to me then.

But shortly after arriving in the United States, we were invited to a Thanksgiving dinner. It was warm, welcoming, and festive. My husband, our two small children, and I were received with open arms. That feeling of hospitality has stayed with us throughout all these years and has never faded.

Each member of our family has had the opportunity to grow here, to find their own path, and to put down new roots. I am especially grateful for all the opportunities, encounters, and kindnesses we have experienced along the way. Whether in our professional lives or in our personal circles, I am thankful for the people who have accompanied us on our journey and for those who will continue to walk with us in the years to come.

Today, as we gather again, these memories feel especially close to my heart. Thank you, and happy Thanksgiving.

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